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6/11/2007

Q:

Dear Mme Zoe D Ack:

My birthday is on December 24. Not too long ago I started seeing a girl that so far I like a lot. Her birthday is May 14. What can you tell me about our compatibility? Thanks. Joan

A:

Hi Joan:

Since you were born on Dec 24, you fall under the Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp. The girl you’re dating falls right around the middle of the Taurus III cycle.

By nature, you are a workaholic and practical. You are a steady force to be reckoned with. If there’s someone people can count on being stable and reliable it’s you. To you, life is a plan book and every minute of every hour should be planned and thought out. You’re not the biggest spur of the moment woman out there. But again, if someone is looking for a supportive person... you are a fortress all by yourself.

On the other side of the spectrum is your Taurus III girl. Spontaneity could be one of her middle names. And planning, to her, is not among the top priorities. She likes to live in the moment, many times taking action on a whim. That’s when you come in and provide some anchoring action. With you around, Taurus III girl will think twice before being irresponsible. On the flip side... you could use throwing some caution to the the wind at times and she’s just the right person to stimulate you to take a chance on something new.

Taurus III women tend to be a bit stubborn. But then, so are Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp ladies. So who will flex when you don’t agree? That’s a tough question to answer but it’s that stubborness that not only divides but unites you. Taurus III women tend to be kind hearted and sometimes somewhat naive. Who better to open her eyes and ears to reality than you, Sagittarius Capricorn lady?

At first, you ladies might find it hard to find a middle ground (remember that little thing called stubbornness?). And many times there won’t be any middle ground near the premises. But, you do, in the long run, compliment each other very nicely. A tremendous balancing act will take place here little by little (as long as neither one of you is aware that their changing their ways!). Sagittarius Capricorn girl, you will learn to loosen up a lot and live a little bit more carefree. You will learn to laugh out loud more often, be more communicative and you might even learn to actually say you’re sorry. On the other hand, Taurus III lady will learn that life needs some molding and shaping up. Responsibilities and a bit of a thicker skin might grow on her. Overall, neither one of you will stop being who you are (you’re both unshakable that way) but you will both learn to step closer to each other and therefore find a happy halfway point.

 

Hi Mme Zoe:

I'm interested in a gal at work.She's a Taurus III and I'm Aries I. Can you tell me if there's a possible compatibility? Thanks, Rage

7/11/2007

Q:

A:

Hi Rage:

There is usually some type of compatibility between signs. The question is what kind of compatibility you have. Aries I and Taurus III make better friends than lovers. Not that they can’t burn in the flames of passion but the challenge lies in that they are both very competitive and jealous in nature. You can also add belligerence to the mix and you might begin to understand why these two signs need a frequent break from each other unless either (or both) of you are into having nervous breakdowns and get a kick out of banging your heads silly against the padded walls of your boudoir. If so, by all means, love is in the air! To be honest, oil and vinegar go nicely on a salad but not within a bottle (as you’ve notice, they live in separate chambers.) And so, Aries I and Taurus III are just like that. They join together nicely for a crispy, refreshing moment but when you bottle them up..... they go their opposite ways, no matter how much you try to shake things up. :)

7/11/2007

Q:

Hi Zoe:

I’m a Capricorn Aquarius and have been dating a wonderful woman who’s a Leo l. We seem to always have a good time when were around each other. I’m asking her to move in with me. Do you think we will have a long lasting relationship or will the move mess up what we have? Thanks, Judy

A:

Hi Judy:

Capricorn Aquarius women seem to have a vivid imagination and are really good at making people feel at ease with their fantastic sense of humor. I’m sure you attract many women. Leo I ladies are very bubbly and giving most especially when they are in love. You both have the ability to laugh things off so when a problem or hardship arises you will likely be able to fix things with the help of sarcasm and dark humor. The apocalypse might be coming and instead of being scared you’ll be thinking “Gee, I guess we won’t have to make any more mortgage payments.” Life together is a joy and even when it’s challenging, you’re up to it because you’re a team. The flip side to this bliss is that it’s very possible you’ll lose your identity. You two could merge to the extreme where you no longer know who you are as an individual. Needless to say, if either one of you is out of the picture, for whatever reason(s), the other one will come unglued and be thunderstruck. So yes, a long lasting relationship is very possible but ironically enough, you should always remain a little selfish. Keeping your individuality and independence will benefit you both in the long run.

7/16/2007

Q:

Hi Zoe:

Ok, I've talking to this woman and we seem to really like each other but according to your campatibility page, she's not even on my short term hook ups.. does this mean we're not compatible? her b-day is march 29 & mine dec. 5th. Thanks, Minerva

A:

The woman who you’ve grown fond of is an Aries l and as an Aries l she has a lot of endearing qualities. She’s an active lady with a spontaneous personality. She can be very thoughtful and affectionate. She also can be a really good match for you just as long as you handle her with kid gloves. Aries l tends to be ultra sensitive and gets uptight when she’s being accused or talked down to. Actually, uptight is putting it lightly. Aries l girl may actually go on a massive tantrum! Watch out, there’s an explosive anger within her that is a bit intimidating to say the least. On the other hand, once she gets her point across with words that cut through your heart like a razor, she most likely will apologize if she has overreacted. Also, keep in mind that Aries l women tend to be very flirtatious and this could create some friction (remember, they don’t like to be accused of anything). But since you’re a Sagittarius II who knows a thing or two about flirting as well, then you can relate to her playful ways. You too can be a heartbreaker in your own way. Sagittarius ll are the type of women that vocalize whatever they feel strongly about. You never hold back what you feel or think. Which is what makes you irresistible! Your passionate side may attract and melt many hearts but at the same time it may make some women who are not ready for the challenge run for the hills. That’s why when you meet someone who shares and understands you completely you hold on to them with a loving grip. Your relationship with Aries l girl could be a good one if you give each other some space. It all depends on the two of you of course. Communication, trust and understanding with a side order of a fun loving personality can work wonders. There’s no big reason these two astrological signs couldn’t work out. Remember, nothing is written in stone. No matter what, surely your charming ways will blend well with hers.

8/2/2007

Q:

Hi Mme Zoe D Ack:

There's a man that I'm interested in, his birthday is December 23 and mines is November 13. Can you tell me if there's a chance for a long-term relationship? Also, he seems to be holding on to his exgirlfriend, is he a man who would easily let go unless he wasn't still very deeply emotionally involved? Thanks, love and enjoy your column, Julia

A:

Hi Julia:

You’re a Scorpio III and your love interest is a Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp. As you might have read in our Scorpio III Hook Ups, Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp is one of your ideal partners. Aside from the information already available on the web site, there’s a few more things that might help you understand your Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp and the ‘relationship’ they have with their ex. If you’re not aware, Sagittarius Capricorn people tend to be very giving and have a kind heart. They are a little difficult to “read”, at times they tend to isolate themselves and not be the best communicators. Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp tend to have a restless spirit and very heartily seek harmony in their life. They will go out of their way to make peace. They highly dislike quarrels and strong disagreements. Therefore, if you want them to open up it’s best not to pick fights. You can’t give into your jealousy or insecurities. You’re going to have to do a bit of tongue biting. If you decide to get tough and press them against the wall, Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp might agree with you at the moment just to avoid confrontation but at the same time resent you for it. If this goes on for a long period of time they’re patience and peace yearning might just break and so they’ll feel the need to flee. Remember, they need security and tranquility in their life. A stable partner is of great importance to them. So for this relationship to work out, you’re going to have to refrain from cracking your whip often. Work on patience, understanding and positive communication skills. If you can stick to this plan long enough your Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp will trust and love you for it, eventually making the “ex” a blurry memory.

As to whether your Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp can let go of their ex. Well, my crystal ball is a bit foggy at the moment. I don’t know if the ex has been an ex for two months or two years (that makes a difference) but in any case, we’d say that Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp will find it difficult to go against their nature which is to stick to the familiar. One more thing, remember that Sagittarius Capricorn is a mix between fire and earth signs. So Sagittarius Capricorn Cusp people tend to have a tug of war within themselves. While one part of them wants to go into the unknown the other part will suck them back into a comfortable vortex.

Thank you, we’re glad you enjoy the Mme Zoe column.

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